charukesi August 17th, 2005
Uma at IndianWriting has a thought-provoking post Many Indias on the recent tragedy involving two Manipuri women at the Gateway. What were press photographers doing there, clicking pictures. and not attempting to help. And all the onlookers. There is an interesting discussion on at her blog about why people do not want to get involved.
My own thought about the bystander effect is what studies have proved earlier - that the more the number of people present at the scene, the less likely or willling will an individual be to get involved. the bystander effect (also known as bystander apathy) is a psychological phenomenon where persons are less likely to intervene in an emergency situation when others are present than when they are alone.
Apart from of course this situation that Truman talks about there - Our laws and the police have installed a fear within us for helping people in need. The people around did not care to save the girl because maybe they feared that what will follow after this will be a string of court and police station visits.
My own experience with the “law” happened three days ago - we were driving along Palm beach Road in Vashi on Sunday (14th) night at around 10.30 p.m. when we saw a dead buffalo on the road. Probably an accident. And we thought, we want to report this to someone and get it cleared off the streets, but who?
Thinking of the epidemic scare and the fact that the next day was a public holiday (Independence day), I called 100 from my husband’s cell phone. the phone was picked up on the second ring.
Hullo! I am calling from Vashi. Palm Beach Road. There is a dead buffalo here on the road and we want to get it cleared… blah blah (all in Hindi)
Madam, you have to speak to the Vashi police station.
Can you give me the number please?
Time spent on call - less than a minute
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Vashi police station - phone picked up on seventh ring.
Same routine - from my side.
Ji, mein Vashi se blah blah… yahan sadak par ek bhains mara pada hai blah blah… (there is a dead buffalo on the road…)
Ehh, kaun mar gaya? (eh, who is dead?)
I gripped the phone hard and thought - I hope I never ever have to report a dead person - ever - to the police.
Kaun nahi - ek bhains (not who - a buffalo)
Ehhh, to hum kya kar saktey hain? (so what can we do?)
Please get it cleared…
Aap kaun baat kar rahe hain?
… Please get it cleared….
Pehle bataiye aapka naam kya hai…
(first thought - hullo, I haven’t murdered the buffalo, why is my name important?
immediate follow-up thought - oh my god, I am calling from a mobile number… is he going to harrass me?)
Suniye madam, aisa nahi chalega, aapko proper complaint likhna padega. Aise phone par hum kuch nahi kar saktey (you have to give a ‘proper’ complaint - we cannot do anything on the phone)
Aap police hain. Aapko kuch karna padega (in best shaky threatening voice - you have to do something)
(Consultations in the background)
Aap BMC (or was it NMMC) ko report kijiye
Number denge please?
Time spent on call : 5.49 minutes
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Municipal Corporation : phone rings. And rings. And rings.
Imaginary answer in my head - hullo, yeh Sunday raat hai. Hum kyon office be baithey rahenge? Aur kal? Kal to chutti hai. Swatantrata diwas hai na. Parson dekh lenge. Bhains to mar gaya na.
(Why do you think we will be here at work on a Sunday night. Or tomorrow - on a public holiday. The buffalo is dead - it can wait for a day more).
The next time, we will drive straight on. Buffalo, RIP…